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Does he love me or is he leading me on?

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Question - (21 April 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2012)
A female Sri Lanka age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I love this guy. I have a feeling that he likes me too. He messages and calls me every day. But he had a bad relationship previously and now he says he doesn't want to fall in love and get hurt again. but he also says he cares about me and calls me for hours at a time. he asks me weird questions like how my life has changed after he came into it and etc etc... he has never said he loves me or anything like that, but i can feel it from him. What do I do? Does he love me or is he leading me on? I don't know what, but I feel very lost.

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A female reader, Meesh76 United Kingdom +, writes (29 April 2012):

Meesh76 agony auntHi, this guy obviously feels comfortable talking to you and sees you as a good friend. When you have a connection with someone and it's quite intense it's easy to get confused about your feelings. This guy obviously needs you right now but just be careful that you do not become his comfort blanket. Maybe suggest to him that you go out and have a little fun. You really don't have to even think about the L word just yet. You are comfortable with each other so just relax, have a good time and see what develops. It's understandable been wary when you have been burned in the past but we have all been there and it doesn't mean that you can't go out and enjoy yourself. Just step it down a gear and see what happens. Good luck.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (22 April 2012):

janniepeg agony auntHe is open enough to reveal his vulnerability to you. He asked you how your life has changed. Reply honestly, that you don't know because you need to get to know him better, and that you want the real deal and not just talk. Tell him you like him a lot and that you will rely on each other and try not to hurt each other. I don't know about your culture but the L word is not exchanged until several months of dating. When said too early it is hard to believe.

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