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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy i met online. We met a few times and we get on like a house on fire. The thing is because its happened me alot I'm afraid he might be texting other girls. like he said he isn't but look how he met me. he could've met a few girls online and now i feel pparanoid. How do i get over this?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 April 2012):
 There is not much you can do..either you trust and believe him or you don't.
meeting online and trying to make an LDR work is very very hard.... if you don't trust you have no relationship....
you've met a few times... how far apart are you?
how often do you meet?
have you had "the talk" and are you committed to each other and monogamous?
when do you plan to end the gap?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (21 April 2012):
 In online dating it goes both ways. You met him the same way. It's won't be very proactive to worry about something you can't control. You have to talk about what the future is like with him. Once you know there is a possibility of living closer to each other in the future there will be a stronger sense of commitment. Right now there has been no mention of exclusivity or being official. I assume it's been going on for a few months. Don't be afraid of opening up to him about this because your worries aren't doing you any good. There is no sense of developping an LDR that does not go anywhere. If he feels pressured that you want something real so be it. If both of you have already claimed it as something solid and he still wants to text other girls that's indicative of his character and not something you should take personally.
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