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writes:Why couldn't he have told me he's not into me instead of leading me on? So there's this guy that I like, I thought he liked me too. He told me he wanted us to take things slow.But he's stood me up 3times. We'd make plans but when the day comes he won't ring me or show up.Last time we talked he asked me to the movies but I couldn't go cos I was out shopping so I said in the evening. In the evening I rang him and he said he went with his friend already.I was so upset so I told him I will speak to him later. Is been a week now and I've not heard from him. I've deleted his number already so I can't ring him.I guess he was never into me then?Thanks..x Reply to this Question
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reader, kendra30752richardz  +, writes (6 November 2011):
 It may just be a simple case of you guys just not having matching schedules. But 3 times? I don't blame you. If a guy can't make time for me when he said he would then he's not good enough. I'd probably forget about him and if he comes around with a real excuse and you want to meet up, maybe? I'd keep him on a tight leash though. Don't let him think he can do you like that. If you think it was a mistake then maybe give it another shot, but only if he comes to you. I wouldn't waste my time on him at all honestly.
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reader, LostFan +, writes (6 November 2011):
Yeah, forget this guy. He's stood you up 3 times. Enough is enough. Don't let him do that to you again.
That's good that you deleted his number. Don't give this guy the time of day anymore. He's not worth it. He certainly doesn't respect you if he calls you last minute or makes dates and then can't be bothered to show up or even call you.
You deserve to be treated better. There are plenty of other guys who won't treat you this poorly.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 November 2011):
 I agree, he wasn't that into you :( Sorry.
I wouldn't waste any more time on him.
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reader, TrinityHunter +, writes (6 November 2011):
 Ugh, I know how that feels. I had talked to this guy and he asked to me to our Homecoming dance. Well, the day before he cancled and said that something had came up and that he didn't really want to go in the first place. So, the next night I show up to the dance and found him there, with another girl. He seen me on more than one occassion at the dance, stared at me, and didn't speak to me. Then he texted me the next day like ain't nothin' happened. He also started being a huge jerk and disrepected me. It showed me who he really was, and that was someone I absolutly positively did not like. You shouldn't fret about it. Everything happens for a reason and you was deserving of something SO much better!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2011): Hey this happened to me too, I kept arranging our dates and inviting him to parties, and he got sick, someone in the family died, plenty of bizarre excuses, and finally, I found out that he already had a girlfriend, as well as a couple of other girls being strung along. Your guy may have something genuinely bad going on in his life or something similar to my story, but whatever the case, he wasn't able to be in a relationship with you. I'm really sorry, but you probably had a lucky escape
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