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writes:Can anyone help me? I tried breaking up with my boyfriend of 2 years and 4 months, but he just reeled me back in like the other 5 or more times. Now, we're just 'friends' until I feel that we should be together but I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. I like my best friend and he does ms, so I just want my 'relationship' with my boyfriend to end once and for all but I don't know how to tell him. Everytime I tried breaking up with him he'd say he was going to harm himself which would make me take him back. And all this week we've just been friends but I don't want to be friends anymore! Just nothing! But I feel bad because I've told him to just stop and wait for me because I'm under a lot of stress which is true and got his hopes up. Can anyone help
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 November 2011):
 What he is doing is cruel, he is using emotional black mail to keep you because he doesn't want to lose you, but this is wrong. Off course you would be scared in case he hurt himself. But this is not your responsibility and it is more than likely that these are just empty threats. It is time to start following your heart and being strong. Be honest with him and don't lead him along any more. Be straight with him and tell him that it is over and drop contact with him to allow him to get over you. Do not take no for an answer and do not let him black mail you. Good luck.
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