A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Okay so my boyfriend and I been together for a year and a half I'm 18 freshman at a community college. My friend (a boy) goes to ^^^^ State. and I want to go up and visit and experience that college life and party. He's mad I guess that I'm taking three days off from work and going to visit him because he's a boy and he's saying that if it was turned around I would be tripping, but to me I see it was a opportunity and experience I shouldn't have to give that up. He graduated before and he's been up to colleges plenty of times, I don't see the difference. I just feel that I should be able to do what I want and shouldn't have to answer to anyone but my parents. Not saying I want to go and talk/ have sex with other people. I just want to have fun with friend who I used to see every day in high school, because most of my close friends went away to school. Should I just be single? Because I'm going either way whether he like it or not. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 November 2011):
 He is just jealous at the minute because he doesn't want to see you going up and staying with another guy, but at the end of the day if the relationship is going to work there needs to be trust, and it is obvious that he does not trust you. You have every right to go up and spend some time with your friend, either male or female he is still your friend and you should be free to do what you like.
Explain to your boyfriend that he is your friend and you are going to visit him and he needs to be able to trust you or else the relationship has no future.
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