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male
age
30-35,
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writes:I like a girl from my class, and we are best friends, She knows that i like her. Both of us along with my room-mate and his girl friend (we all are in the same class in college) had planned to go on a road trip on motorcycles.In the last minute another friend of us also joined.After reaching our destination, Everything was fine until she started giving the other guy more importance than to me. I dint say anything. I was just behaving dull. She pressured me to tell her whats wrong. i told her "you cannot equally give importance to a Just Friend and Best friend."I just said that and was being in my own way. While coming back, she said she will ride pillion with the other guy, i dint say anything for that too. she knows that i did not like it. i just came back all alone on my motorcycle without halting anywhere. I reached home 5 hours before them. She got pissed off because i did not wait for them. After these people reached home, my room mate told me that my best friend had met with a minor accident. So i called her, but she rejected my call twice, I texted her asking whether she was okay. she did not reply me back. she called up my roommate and told him not tell anything about her to me from now on and that she does not want to talk to me anymore. so i just dropped in a text saying "I shouldnt have behaved dull and moody in the trip. it just happened, my thinking wasnt straight, please lets get over it and be back normal, best friends are rare and i only have one. Ill cut this behaviour of mine and it wont happen again, Get well soon. Give me a call after you cool down, Ill be waiting."I feel all lonely without my best friend, i dont want to come across too clingy and desperate. What do i do? And we both are in the same class, i have to face her everday. these thoughts are killing me. Please suggest something..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 November 2011):
 You say you don't want to be clingy but that is exactly how you behaved, she see's you as a friend but nothing else, and you need to accept that. She is entitled to have other friends as well as you, but you are letting your feelings for her get in the way of the friendship and you are jealous when it comes to her talking to other guys. How are you going to cope in the future when she finds herself a boyfriend. You need to accept that she is a friend and nothing else. Off course you miss her but I think you need some space from her to get over your feelings, because they will ruin the friendship in the long run.
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