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Our first exclusive date. Any tips please?

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Question - (5 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ModNote: You are 17. It may help if the you posted a follow up on the age of your boyfriend, as the Aunts and Uncles may appreciate that information

My boyfriend and I are going on our first exclusive date (just the two of us, we usually go with a group), and I'm a little bit nervous because I know we'll be making out.

And I've never done that before.

He's older, so I know he has, and I'm worried about it being really awkward and uncomfortable, and that I might pull away because I'm so nervous. I could really use some tips to maybe help me relax when we start kissing, or maybe something that won't make me feel uncomfortable. I don't have any older sisters close-by that I could talk to, and my mom isn't really in the picture. The closest woman I have to talk to is my 78 year old grandmother :/

Thanks!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntJust remember that you should never do anything that you are not comfortable with. It is normal to get nervous on a first date, completely natural believe me. But when it comes to making out only do what you feel comfortable with, if you begin to feel uncomfortable well then pull back and be honest with him. Never do anything that you don't want to and don't feel forced in to taking things further.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2011):

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Follow up: I'm 18 in a month and he's 20, to help clarify.

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