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writes:lately ive just been feeling so worthless and it kinda seems like the world would be so much better without me. my girlfried deserves so much better than i can offer and no matter how much i try to improve i only make things worse. no matter what i do she refuses to leave me which only makes me try harder to improve which makes things worse repeating the cycle. im really desperate and i dont know what to do anymore Reply to this Question
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reader, Namatjira  +, writes (9 February 2008):
As Mandy7 says, you are in depression. This is not uncommon though I wish it was. You should also know that very rarely can depression just go away without help.You should see your doctor who can refer you to appropriate medical help. You can also message me or Mandy7 as she offered. We have been there and come through it.Do not think you are alone and do at least accept that others value you more than you value yourself.Just remember when you look in a mirror at your own reflection you see yourself backwards from the way others see you.Do not give up. You are NOT alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Hi Hunny
Please listen to what I have to say sweetheart, You are in a deep depression and you need help now, YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!never have been and never will be, Your life is worth far more than you could ever imagine hunny, Now if you havent anyone to talk to message me, Hunny ive lost 2 great friends.... And you are feeling like this is never going to go away.. IT WILL! Please trust me Ive been there myself and came out the other end stronger and happier and you can as well, So please seek some help and inbetween lets see if we can help get you back eh!
http://psychcentral.com/lib/2006/worthlessness-and-depression/
Here is a link hunny message me anytime TAKE CARE LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 You g/f loves you and that is what counts. You cannot promise her gold or riches and that is not what she wants from you.She could have gone for a very rich man.
You should treasure and appreciate her and not think what she wants from you .Just love her and enjoy those moments. Everything will fall into place when they are ready.
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reader, rcn +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Have you taken any time to think that maybe your girlfriend is with you because she chooses to be with you? In a relationships it's not your position to analyze why she's with you, it's your position to know why you're with her. She knows why she's with you and why she won't leave you. Her reasons are personal for her, and she isn't obligated to reveal them.
Right now you're young. I bet you hear that a bit. Let me tell you what I was doing at your age. At this time of morning, I'd be too drunk to write this. I was drunk 7 days a week from the time I woke up until I finally passed out. My only goals were to pick up women, and earn enough money to buy a couple more weeks of beer. I didn't know where I was going, or had any intentions on figuring it out. Youth is confusing. Sometimes hard, but full of opportunity.
Now I'm a paralegal with the public defenders office. I have 4 wonderful children. I've been a motivational speaker. I've been an insurance agent. In my spare time, I'm a Christian country music recording artist, and I study abnormal personality disorders.
Life changes. Take one step at a time, and one day at a time. Change doesn't just take place it's a series of steps that have to be taken to get to where you want to go. If you consistently take those steps you'll begin to notice a difference.
I hope this helps. Take care.
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