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writes: i just recently broke up with my boyfriend. my BEST friend told me(while me and my boyfriend were dating)that he liked me more than a best friend, and i feel the same. He is kinda the reason i broke it off with my boyfriend. My friend helped me with the break up,and was happy that we broke up but now since we are broken up.. its like an on and off "i like you" vibe, like hell ask me to hang out over the weekend and then the night we plan to he doesnt text me back. We are the type of best friends that tell each other everything, hang out almost everyday, and everyone thinks were dating. Do you think he is still interested ? I dont really want to ask because i think it would be awekward.. but i really want to know and i wouldnt know what to say
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Hey honey
I think it's not necessary to ask him, you should just try and read into his actions. If you guys are hanging out almost every day, then I think this shows that he's still interested in you. Seen as you guys seem to be close, surely there's not a lot of doubt as to whether he likes you? And if he told you in the first place, while you were dating, that would have took a lot of courage! It wouldn't have been just a one off feeling. To admit that would have taken time.
So by the sounds of it, he's still interested! If you have the courage to tell him you'd quite like more than a friendship, then go for it! You say you talk about everything, so talk about this! Seen as it is quite important in the long run. He may be just as shy as you, when it comes to asking you out, or seeing if you're still interested. Go for it girl, it seems that you two are desperate for each other. If he's interested, and you are too, then go for it!
Good luck :]
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (9 February 2008):
When you hang out with him , you will see from his mannerism if he is still interested in you. You don't have to ask him. Just use your power of observations and your intuitions.
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