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36-40,
*osee
writes:My bf and I have been dating for over a year now. And as a joke he poped the question, a couple of time. We basicly live together. I go to school and I work. He works full time and has his own appartment. The only difference is, i'm actually serious about it and he keeps changing his mind. I love him from the bottom of my heart and I know it's the same on his side, but he doesn't want to do the "real" preposal yet. I don't know what to do, I don't wanna rush things but it would be like in a fairy tale if he would actually propose. Any tips on what I should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Namatjira  +, writes (9 February 2008):
A marriage proposal has the best chance of success if BOTH are ready for it without any reservations and at the same time.You just need to be patient. You are young and so have a lot of time to still enjoy the fairy tale when and if it happens.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Tell him , you love the sound of pitter-patter of little feet...LOL!
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (9 February 2008):
You said hes not sure about marriage yet, so I think you need to accept this and dont try to get him to propose for real yet.
You said it would be like a fairytale if he proposed for real now, that may be so, but so many months later after the honeymoon period of being married wears off, it wont be like a fairytale because he isnt ready to be married yet. You need to just wait for when hes ready, when hes ready he will really propose - no hints needed.
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reader, happytochat +, writes (9 February 2008):
You said hes not sure about marriage yet, so I think you need to accept this and dont try to get him to propose for real yet.
You said it would be like a fairytale if he proposed for real now, that may be so, but so many months later after the honeymoon period of being married wears off, it wont be like a fairytale because he isnt ready to be married yet. You need to just wait for when hes ready, when hes ready he will really propose - no hints needed.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 I have an idea for you. Do you have a cell phone with custom ring tones. Put the wedding march as your incoming ring tone.
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