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male
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30-35,
*lackZer0
writes:My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 months now and she is amazing. For a month she blew me away, she was nothing but the greatest person on Earth and I even proposed to her. I know I'm young, but I can deal. Anyway, she always mentioned her ex boyfriend (with the amazing age of 31) who she hated and never wanted to talk to and how their relationship was terrible for the first month. Well he moved back to where they can see and talk and everything has changed. She will use every excuse to see him, to talk to him, and to be around him. She has openly told me she cuddles and kisses him and will glorify how much he loves her and she gets that "lovey" voice every time she talks about him. For 4 months we've argued about this and all she says to me, and everyone else, is that "he can't stop me and he won't." The only thing I haven't done is leave her, but she won't listen. Suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Just dump her how can she be so insensitive for goodness sake she must think you are such a doormat to sit a listen to that.
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reader, Emzy1591  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 It sounds like shes still in love with her ex, i would leave. She clearly likes him still and if she does then theres not much you can do to change that. Tell her that if she doesn't commit herself to you then you will leave or ask her if she would be happier with her ex. But i really think you need to sit down and discuss the situation with her.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 This is definitely not a good situation to be in. If you have tried and she ignores you , then you need to shake her up . If you had enough, then you will have to decide if you want to dump her or ignore her ramblings.
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