New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Pregnant or miscarriage?

Tagged as: Big Questions<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (9 February 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok, im 18 and i just lost my virginity 11 days ago.... is it possible that i could be pregnant already? and if i was, could i be having a miscarriage this soon? because earlier when i went to go use the bathroom, i had heavy bleeding, which wasn't like if i was on my period, and i just had my period 13 days ago.... so its too soon for me to be having it again... does anybody know whats up?

View related questions: be pregnant, lost my virginity, period

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks guys... i tried to sleep it off and it seemed to work... the bleeding stopped, but i still feel a little bit of cramping, but im feeling waaaaaay better today. i kinda have the feeling like im gonna start my period, so i think i'll be fine

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008):

You havent had enough time to be pregnant but to be sure go along to your doctors and explain it all to them. The best advice i can give.

take care

xx

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, Namatjira United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2008):

It sounds like there has not been enough time for any pregnancy to have reached a point of a formed amniotic sack and fluid including blood. So I would think it unlikely in addition to the reasons mentioned by others.

You should see your doctor because it is bleeding that is not expected and so should be medically checked and while it is likely due just to the loss of your virginity you cannot ignore it.

Good luck

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008):

Yeah it could be a miscarriage. I had that exact same thing once. The first thing the doctor will rule out is pregnancy. They can detect that right away with a urine sample. If that is ruled out then she will also examine you for gonnorrhea/chlamydia and cervical cancer. These tests take about two weeks for the results. Once all four of those are ruled out then the only possible thing it could be is something hormonal or perhaps an injury from the sex.

You should go to the doctor though so that with tests they can rule out anything that could actually harm you.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (9 February 2008):

rcn agony auntI'd say go to the doctor to find out. It can be so many things. I could be an "additional" period by loosing your virginity as well. Go get checked to make sure everything is OK with you.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, kat2u61 South Africa +, writes (9 February 2008):

I hope the "loss" of your virginity was worthwhile, so maybe I should say congratulations :) One question: when you say you had your period 13 days ago, do you mean the day your period started or the day it stopped? In medicine, we always count from the first day of your last period so as to avoid any confusion. Either way, it is unlikely that you fell pregnant, because in normal cycles ovulation takes place around the 15th day AFTER the first day of your period. You will find though that your body has to adjust to your new-found sexuality, so you will probably have irregular periods initially, also disrupted by WANTING to have your period, being afraid when it's a day late or so, etc. Also remember the fact that more than 20 % of all pregnancies are "miscarried" during the first few weeks without the woman even knowing about it. So relax. However, if you ARE worried, go and see a gynaecologist. And remember "safer sex" in all aspects, please.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Pregnant or miscarriage?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312727999989875!