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writes:I am 31 years old and i recently started a new relationship. I have a 15 year old son. My boyfriend has two children 13 year old girl and 10 year old boy. my son and his daughter finally met a few weeks ago. im very concerend because now they think they are bf and gf. Is this wierd or is it just me. Im not sure how to handle this help please Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 no problem. like i said. after the "Honeymoon period" the cracks will appear. they're both going through pubirty so they will help with them arguing :Dgood luck
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reader, singlemomfindslove +, writes (10 February 2008):
singlemomfindslove is verified as being by the original poster of the question well thats what we have been doing letting them be. problem is we do live together and they come over every other weekend. He does know bout safe sex and has been given condoms. It just seems strange i guess ive just never been in this situation. Thanks for the advice. much gratitude
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (9 February 2008):
think you got problems? hell at least they arn't blood relations.is it ideal?... no. is it right... uh.. well you ain't married this new guy so its not like they're bother and sister. or even step bro and sis.just let them be. they will grow up and apart. think about it. if you and this guy move in togehter. they'll be around each other 24/7.they'll get on each others nerves. However. and i hate to be the one to paint this picture for you. but make sure your son knows what a condom is, and what it's for.. we get enough 13 year old girls saying i think i'm preggers.... Luck favors the prepared. not saying it is gonna happen or ever would, but you can't stop them from thinking they're bf/gf as that will only add fuel to the hire. leave them be and let time and the disapointlents of life take their toll.
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