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writes:I made this post a few weeks ago. Our situation has changed again. We are not able to see one another at all. Are only able to talk for like a minute a couple of days a week. I send him text messages he reads but is not able to reply to most of them. He fears he is being spied on at work which is where the phone is I am able to message him on, so he only gets them when he goes to the restroom. He still talks to me like he wants to be with me. How can a man be able to do this if he truly did not love me? How long can he or she continue this?http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-his-cake-and-eats-it.htmlShe does know it happened. We had words. They have not been intimate, he is not attracted to her and the last time they "tried" it was unsuccessful (about a year ago). I cannot be a "mistress" without being able to see him. He is not getting to have his cake. He sounds very sad. I can tell when he lies to me (some kind of intuition thing) or is not being completely honest and those things are the truth.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 I do not understand why you have not seen through this guy by now, do not think for one second that you are the only mistress in his life, he has used you and now is praying on some else and telling you a load of rubbish and you are accepting it.
Think it is time for you to wake up to the fact that he is a no good cheat, he is cheating on his wife, you and any other woman he comes in contact with,he is a total user and if you cant accept that fact, then i am afraid that you are a lost cause.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Sweety take a hint, you had an affair with a married man and got caught. Now he wont speak to you giving some lame excuse about being spied on and hes still with his wife. If he was truly unhappy hed have left his wife a long time ago. Your being lied to and played. Pull yourself together and get out of the gutter, shagging married men is so low.
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