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writes: Well i meet up with this guy a few days ago, we have talked over the computer for a while and got on well though i know when you meet someone in person they can be very different.Well he was very shy and nervous and would hardly look me in the face most of the time. I tried to start conversation but he wasnt very talkative so things were a bit awkward. We went to the cinema and i laid my head on his shoulder and he laid his head on mine but after the movie he went all quiet again and didn't even give me a hug goodbye. So has anyone any advice on how to make him open up a bit more and talk to me?I don't exactly know if we're going out again though he said he enjoyed it so i take that as a yes.
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reader, lil-angel182 +, writes (9 February 2008):
lil-angel182 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advice and am going to follow it and see how things go :)
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (9 February 2008):
Give him some time and be relax with him and he will soon open up .You cannot hurry and you will need to be the mover and lead him .
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (9 February 2008):
hithis guy sounds really shy. the only way you can open him up is to talk. talk about sports he likes. laugh a lot but not too much. if you too serious then that might make him more nervous. with time he will become more open with you. don't rush him thoughgood luckmail me if you wanna talkxxx
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