A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i need ur help on this...there's this guy he always picks on me...in a good away poking me, saying hi-as he says hi i say hi then he says hi in a soft voice then i say hi..etc...then one time, it snowed a lot and in this organization where weboth are in, started playin g with the snow with a whole bunch of other ppl...then we go back in he says always come this day cuz we are scheduled to volunteer on different days...i took my cam with me that day and took a lot of pics of all of us..then as we are inside he says so can u giveme the pics i said sure...he said ill give u my usb(memory stick)...and give it to me tomorrow, i said sure, cuz i knew that there wasnt school tomorrow and he had to leave early in the afternoon. i told him what time do u leave he said about 1, i said well ill try, he said whats ur cell number ill give u a missed call and ull know ill leave soon i said ok..so then almost after that day hed missed call me everyday and sometimes twice and 3 times, sent me msgs saying u beautiful, how r u, and that kinda thing...but on 5 days ago i was sitting there with another guy alone in the kitchen there(organization) and he came in and said good after noon and looked at me, the guy said good afternoon, i know he was saying it to me then he repeats his hi and i say hio then he says hi..etc but i didnt respond to it as i used to becus of that guy cuz i know they dont get along that well, and i am very close to that i was sitting with...from that day on he has never missed called me...but that day i came home and i missed called him he then missed called me and that was it!!whyy so?? just trying to figure out why he did so?? did i do him wrong when i replied to him the way i did when i was sitting withthe other guy help!!tomorrow i might see himand i need to know how to react with him!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Your usual way of saying hi is special between you two. You most probably hurt his feelings by reacting differently in front of a different guy. He would have made himself look stupid in front of the other guy. I suggest if you like this guy text him something like "I'm sorry about the other day... I really like you....." or something like that :)
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