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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): Hello. I was in a similar situation and they now have this prenatal paternity test which is non-invasive. Do a search on-line for DNA Plus. When you are 13 weeks pregnant (14 1/2 if it's your first child) you can get your blood drawn and take samples from each of the potential fathers (cheek swabs) and send them in. Within 10 business days, they can tell you which man is the father. It costs a little over $1300 but was worth it for my peace of mind. I now know before my little girl is born who the father is and can move forward with plans for the future. I hope this helps you and try to be happy that you have a little person growing inside of you. Mine will be here in about 3 more months! :)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 Sorry to hear you are not in a strong position. It is only temporary . I wish you success in your job search.
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reader, amaretto23ohio  +, writes (28 February 2008):
amaretto23ohio is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I have no job and no money and I don't really have anywhere else to go. Honestly, if I had the money I would have never came back but I couldn't find a job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): Honey, look, why are you with a man that would kick you out with a newly born baby?
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reader, amaretto23ohio +, writes (28 February 2008):
amaretto23ohio is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the responses! I feel a little better now. I still have 2 1/2 more months to find out who the father is. :(
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (28 February 2008):
Only a DNA test will conclusively tell who is the father of that baby. That is still a long time to go to know the truth.
Disregard his threats. They could just be empty threats. Go on living and don't think too much or worry about those threats. It is not good for you and the baby.
No matter whose baby it will be, it will be 'YOUR' baby !
He is not the law and don't listen to his B.S.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (28 February 2008):
 And if you weren't sleeping with both of them at the same time, then your bf is just a loser. He has no legal ground to take anything from you and he can run his mouth all he wants.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (28 February 2008):
The doctor can tell you the date that you conceived on, and then you can remember who you were with during that time.
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