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writes:My longtime boyfriend of several years used to french kiss me (really well) all the time during foreplay and sex. Now he will go down on me and is very oral sexually EXCEPT when it comes to French kissing. He will no longer French kiss me, only a "peck", ever. I have not changed, am very sexy, with pretty teeth and good hygiene always with good breath. He still will not kiss me. Why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): Hi. I was with my boyfriend for many years, and we were still having sex etc. He would complain that I never french-kissed him anymore. That's when I realized I had fallen out of love. For me , French-kissing is something you do when you're in love. Can't get into it when the passion has died. Even when not in love anymore, you can still have sex. Sorry to be blunt, and maybe hurtful, but you came here for an answer. He probably LOVES you, still enjoys having sex -- but doesn't seem like he's IN LOVE with you anymore. Talk to him about it.
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reader, wildman +, writes (4 March 2008):
 I think a lot of time men aren't careful enough when trying to satisfy their mate. They tend to go for the goods right away and skip the foreplay such as kissing and touching. I think if you ask in a nice way when you are all sexied up one night, you might be able to get him back on track. I know it would work for me. Good luck
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (27 February 2008):
 Men are often very impatient about sexual matters. Once they have been to "home plate" some feel that they do not have to always go through all the kissing and petting stuff to have their satisfaction, but women usually need (or at least want) the loving attention.
Such may be the case here, so you may try withholding a bit by saying, "Wait a minute, I'm not ready yet" when he starts rushing too much. Just tell him that you would like to get warmed up a bit more and would appreciate the affection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): The only way to know is to ask him.
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