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writes:My grilfriend and i have been dating for 1 year and 2 months now and been living together for 6 of those.She's paranoid because her two ex- boyfriends cheated on her. She therefore thinks that i am going to do the same. She is talking to a friend(male) of hers on a chatsite everyday. It bothers me and will always bother me. I know he is her friend and all and they have so much in common. She loves me and I love her. But lately she has been acting very strange. not like she used to act, a lot more hesitant to come close to me and share things with me. It's driving me insane and i don't know what to do. I have told her that it bothers me that she talks to this guy, but she says she refuses to stop. Please could someone help on this?Steve Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 Hi
Difficult one, on the one hand, she has a right to have friends of the oposite sex, as long as nothing is going on. But on the other hand, it can be hard for their partner to get used to.
I have male friends and did have a problem with an ex not liking it, but after he heard us talking, he felt an idiot he said, and realised he had nothing to worry about.
I would say as long as shes not showing any interest in him other than a friend, its your problem and not hers.
Her being a bit vague lately is possibly nothing to do with that. You need to ask her if anythings wrong.
C xxxx
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