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writes: Me and my girlfriend went for 8 months together, it was very exciting and we shared everything together. We had the perfect bond of best friends before and also during the relationship. The week of this Valentine's Day we got into a fight..it didn't last very long, she forgave me after about 2 hours and we moved on. It was just this past Sunday when i asked her why she was acting different around me and why it seemed like she even had trouble kissing me back. She told me she thought all of her feelings for me were gone. So we separated yesterday, I'm heartbroken. We are still friends but i still love her and I desperately want her back. Could all of the feelings she once had for me simply have just left her? ...in only a week? I didn't hurt her, she says it's all her. PLEASE help me, i want her back so badly!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): sometimes you just have to move on. there may be another guy if her feelings went down this faststay strong
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reader, Basschick +, writes (27 February 2008):
It's possible she was more in love with the idea of having a boyfriend, than actually loving that boyfriend. She's young. I suspect she's yet to discover the meaning of real love. No one turns their feelings off that fast. So you have to wonder were they ever "on" to begin with? Probably not. She was caught up in the excitement of having a companion but when it came right down to it, her feelings for you weren't that deep. Sorry, but it happens at this age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThere is no other guy in the mix, i know that...and, we still talk as friends...even closer...
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