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writes:My g/f's 360 page(sorta like myspace)page.Almost all her friends are men.I'm a light skinned man and all these guys are dark skinned.The darker the guy the bigger he is.I'm not small but with all the meds I take I get erectile dysfunction.I can take viagra tho so that's no problem.All the guys say sexy stuff and she puts up things that make them.I get mad but she also wrote blogs about her past.After that she didn't put anything but she told me later that it was no longer fun.I was upset because when we met,she was posting stuff like that and worse.I told her she could write what she wanted.She changed her background to a sign that says "sexual harrassment will not be reported on this page however it will be graded".What do I do now?She leaves comments on other guys pages.Awhile back before we got as serious as we are,she put one of those graphics which read"I may have a dirty mouth,but I can do great things with it"I asked her if she want to give him a bj?She said that it meant she curses alot.wtf??Am i that dumb?She said only guys think it's a bj but women don't think so.Any women want to tell me what you think that means?All these guys who are her friends are dark.(nothing wrong with being dark)Do you think that's what she wants?She acts like i'm childish, but I did say put what she wants.I just meant write what she wants it her blog because it's theraputic to alot of people,not put things up that these guys will comment on like they do with sex stuff.Should I just act like I don't care or should I say something and have another argument?After all after our last argument about one of her friends,she said she'd shut the page down completely.I just wanted her to write what she wants in her blog,not put up crap that guys will say stuff about.I thought about just not going to her page at allbut then these's no telling what will be said.I also thought of putting stuff like that on my page but I only have 10 friends and they never look at my page and I'm just not like that.Besides she doesn't ever get jealuos of anything.That concerns me too.On the other hand she calls and texts me all the time.She tells me how much she loves me all the time too.She says the things she puts on there are all in good fun.I don't know what to think.Someome one plz help me.thanks.
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reader, daisydaresyou  +, writes (28 February 2008):
It sounds like she likes the attention and uses it to validate herself. And the dirty mouth comment is definitely a bj thing! Who is she trying to kid?! It's called an innuendo and if she doesn't understand it herself then she shouldn't be putting it around everywhere! And if she does, she definitely shouldn't be putting it around everywhere! You really don't need her making you feel bad like this. You know, if she says she will take the page down, then let her! I wouldn't like my boyfriend having a page like that after we got together. I used to go on a site that had similar slutty guys that would chat me up a lot, thought I never tried to make the page sexual, and I know my boyfriend hates it so I stopped using the site. It was just some lame distraction for when I was single anyway, I don't need it anymore, and neither does your girlfriend. You are much more important than some sleazy website. Stand up to her and tell her so!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): Hi Hunny
BOY DOES SHE HAVE TO MUCH TIME ON HER HANDS!!!!! And insecure by the sounds of things to need all this male attention, Your right about the b/j and if all her friends are men then her explanation goes down the pan really doesnt it! You have a problem with the errectile dysfunction and this must make you even more unhappy and your self esteem must hit rock bottom.. There are some herbal pills that you can get of the net THAT WORK!!!!! And are safe! it goes on about size alot but it is more good at keeping an errection and for longer you have a read hun and see what you think there is alot of sales crap but they do work!!!!
http://www.vigrxplus.com/?a=07734&t=VIGRX&c=0
Plus you need to get you confidence sorted so you dont feel your in competion with these guys I mean if she cant see they are after one thing then blaa blaa!!! It is giving her an ego boost, She has you for that..
Here is a site for you my friend, it will help build that self confidence and i think there is some cool stuff for you on it as well,
http://www.askmen.com/fashion/body_and_mind_60/77_better_living.html
Hunny get strong get confident and then you will be able to deal with this worry she wont be worried as you are always there for her and she can do what she wants so what on earth has she got to worry about, GET STRONG HUN!!!!!
And then you will be in a better possition to handle the situation TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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