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I feel I'm overdoing it, as I even do it at work... Should I be ashamed?

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Question - (27 February 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend, began to send dirty text messages the other day, i really enjoyed it and ended up having to go to the bathroom at work at masturbate. It was rather embrassing. I try to get the dirty conversations going all the time because it turns me on sooo much. Over the past couple of nights i've had dreams about our conversations and woken up really turned on and had to maturbate as my boyfriend was at work. I'm starting to get embrassed as my boyfriend can't play with me like i can, myself. I feel ashamed because i'm getting paranoid that the people at work know what i'm going to the bathroom for.

Should feel ashamed?

How can i get my boyfriend involved?

Help me!

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A male reader, Uncle Trev United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2008):

Providing you are not taking so much time off of work to go to the toilet that it is affecting your work there shouldn't be a problem.

As for your boyfriend not knowing what buttons to press regarding the intimacy then guide his hand, show him where you like to be touched. I feel pretty sure that this is one lesson he would enjoy from you.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (27 February 2008):

DoubleM agony auntIt is called "Lust" and there is nothing to be ashamed about generally, except that you might not want everyone at work knowing. You did not say whether you have been sexually active with your boyfriend, but I agree with "Annalisa" that he needs to learn more about pleasing you, whether by helping you masturbate or otherwise.

Most men know very little about female pleasure other than the basics of kissing and fondling, so try to show your guy the right spots and ways to give you pleasure. If he cares and wants to learn he will respond to you.

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