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*utie1990
writes:Okay this is gonna be a pretty long post but i rly need advice...My bf and i have been together for almost 3 years. thats sooo long for me. things were going great and still are. There are just always those "times" when it seems like everything is wrong. We had our ups and downs. last yr for christmas he left to florida and i was with his best friend on new yrs eve, but i dont know what happened and we ended up sleeping 2gether. He now has a gurl so we promised to keep it between us and never mention it. Now just recently my bf introduced me to this guy in school- lets call him R. On wednesday (yesterday) a group of us were hanging out and then it was time to leave. Everyone was going uptown but me and R. we ended up gettin out the train and sittin in a park for almost 3 hours talkin and then he kissed me. At first i joined, but then after about a minute i pulled away becuase i felt wrong. Things between me and my bf havent been so great lately. Now dont think im the bad one in the relationship. During the summer he posted a profile about himself as being single on tagged.com and the only reason i found out about it is cuz one of those gurls ended up commenting on his myspace as well. My bf does not know about new yrs, and i will never tell him about that. i dont intend on tellin him about R either. The thing is that with R i get that feeling of butterflies in my stomach- like i like him and i dont know wat to expect. I love my bf i rly do he took my virignity 2 yrs ago and i took his (im 18). we not havin kids no time soon or anythin of that sort. I just dont know wat to do. After new yrs last yr i told myself that i would never repeat this, but R came at me so unepecting. I only met him on abut 2 weeks ago but it was on a hi hello basis. Yesterday was the first day i was with him for more than HELLO and i rly like him. I like him but i love my baby with all my heart. OMG i dont know what to do.... PLEASE help me!
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reader, keely-h  +, writes (23 November 2007):
 ok i think you need to do some soul searching. way up the pros and cons of each of thease boys and clearly chose form them you wouldnt want to waste your relationship.love is strong this may be just a crush.you dont love him you love your bf.mail me if you need any more help. yours trulyxxxxxxx
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reader, comfused101 +, writes (23 November 2007):
if you really love your bf like you say you do. i think there is only one thing that you should do. you are in lust for this R guy. and your feelings may die out or they may get stronger for him the more you hang out. you could keep hanging out with this R guy and see what your feelings do. but i think if you really love your bf you should stop seeing this R guy. tell him that you are busy, or you have plans all ready.my gf meat this guy and hung out with him, like you with R and it ended up in us braking up for 3 months and than her coming back because she realized she loved me and missed up.
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reader, digo +, writes (23 November 2007):
i think you are just been promiscuous...whatever, what the email is offering is 'r u single?' then we guys just sign up, not for any serious business. i think it's high time we stop dat...well does 'blog' indicate your boy's unfaithfulness? pretty no. so just be careful.
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