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writes:I've been best mates with a guy for over a year now. However after 2 months of knowing him he told me he loved me. I told him straight, that i wasnt intrested but I'd hope we'd still be able to be friends. So we have tryed being friends for a while now, but in conversations hes to flirty and always says he loves me. Hes also admited to having the same feelings he had at the 2 month stage. On numerous occasions i have told him that the whole situation was awarkard and he said he would try and stop his feelings. Today i just snaped. I told him that our 'best friend' releltionship wasnt going to last if he continued to have these feelings. He replied it was my decision and he wasnt going to change anything. Were now on this break. Did i do the right thing??
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reader, muffy  +, writes (23 November 2007):
 well there is no right or wrong.if you told him how you feel and he cant except that then hes not a true friend.tell him to move on with his life because your not interested.i mean, at least you gave it a shot at being friends but if its not working out then you have to do something about it.i hope i helpedlove and kisses
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2007): I don't know if you did the right thing, but I do agree with Frank. Rejection really hurts, and knowing that you'll never be more than friends could be enough to make him want distance to get over you. Maybe once he has he'll come back.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (23 November 2007):
 Keep your distence. He can't seem to get over it, and thus your friendship is false.
-Frank B Kermit
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