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writes:Dear cupid, i'm having problems with my mate. i only call her a mate but she says i'm her best friend but anyways she annoys me alot nowadays, the other day i was talking and she wasn't listening and it was obvious so i stopped talking and just said to her i'm coming back and she did come after me but in a way wich i didn't think her response would be she just walked behind me like a stalker and never even spoke, and normally she says dat she is sorry or like something else or she heard what i said and then finnaly when she did say something, she spoke to me in a sarcastic way. also when were doing work she tells me the wrong thing and i'm just there looking at her and thinking and then i just go ok and i write something else or sometimes i say your telling me wrong cause i'm sure the teacher said sumthin else but she always denies and laughs and everytime we do a piece of extended homework she lies and says she has done it and then says she has to finish it off at lunch time, another thing isnt schools meant to have some program about copying and pasting work well she does that for alot of her homeworks just to make it better then mine and then now we have to do a powerpoint for 2 of our lessons and the teacher said no more then 4 in a group and i said me her, and my other 2 mates and she just goes i don't like them and plus i wana just be us 2 and i hated the fact she said that cause she can be pretending to be my friend and talk behind my back just like she did about the other 2 mates in the end it was me and her doin it together, well i dun the powerpoint and she wasnt satisfied, when i spent hours on it then she is changing it now at the moment and i copied and pasted some writing cause it wasn't a majour question so were alowed it was only what the powerpoint is about what that word fair trde meant and she saying sum other crap about puttin in her own words, also she duz lots of other stuff that aint nice, like mean coments eg her work i says its good but i don't ask if its copied cause she might get hurt but she don't care and she knows i dnt cpy n paste wkr of internet its all my words and then she goes is it coped i saw it on the internet and it really gets on my nereves cuz i dnt its all my words i just am good at writing hwne it comes to work. How can i make this all stop? and why is she acting this way towards me when i havent evwen said anythin mean. A minute ago she sent me email talkin abwt trust saying dnt you trust me what da hell, has she changed plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): Tell the teacher about it. Maybe they can speak with your friend.
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reader, AbiMF +, writes (24 November 2007):
Oh I think we've all been there at some point or another. How long has this been going on? I have a very best mate who I trust with everything and love to pieces but occasionally when we're stressed we can go for like 2 weeks constantly arguing and upsetting each other; is it possible this is what's happening. If you don't want to give up on the frienship try talking to her about it without being accusing; tell her you've noticed she's been acting differently recently and you want to know if she's ok. Hopefully she'll open up to you, if not then maybe your friendship has just broken down, it happens occasionally, try hanging out with your other friends and it should settle down eventually, whther you end up remaining friends with her or not. But most of all, don't let yourself get into an argument with her; it may irreparably damage your friendship with her and/or land you in the wrong, be patient and understanding and hope for the best. I hope t all works out for you because I've been there and it isn't fun, good luck,Abi xxx
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reader, Charley Coles +, writes (24 November 2007):
Wow for such a young person you have alot of problems with just one friend. I used to have a friend just like her. Try and hang out with some old mates and completly blank her she will get the messgae and relise what she lost maybe you should talk to her or talk to a teacher you are comftoble with
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