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anonymous
writes:hi. today i asked my crush if she wanted to go for lunch. she said that she couldnt today but offered to meet up next week. We get on well together andwork together in our practical groups and i'll walk her home. do you think that she is trying to avoid going to lunch with me? i'm sure she isn't but has anyone got advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): i would just like to say that i managed to get a date with her! thank you for all your help!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (24 November 2007):
 The fact that she made a suggestion for next week means that she still wants to see you, but can not right now.
If however, she KEEPS posting it...then stop calling her, and make sure that she knows you are spending that time with other women.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): No, she did offer to meet up next week which shows that she is still keen to meet up even though she can't this time. She's probably just busy this time.
If you're sure that she isn't trying to avoid you then why are you asking this question anyway?? What advice do you need?? Simply mine would be: don't worry. Just have a good time!! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): Hey! - why do you think she's trying to avoid you when she asked about meeting up next week. I'm sure she's just busy this week and does want to meet up. If you're that worried just ask her when you see her what she was up to when she couldn't see you this week!Another option is that she's shy and is nervous about meeting up without some thought.Don't worry about it! And have fun when you meet up! x
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (24 November 2007):
 i doubt it, if she puts off the meet up next week then she might be. Gotta not always think of the worst, just because she said she cant meet up this time doesnt mean she doesnt want too. Just keep an eye on it, if she keeps putting it off then shes avoiding, but gotta keep in mind she might have stuff already planned so she wont always be free when you are.
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reader, agonyunclechris +, writes (23 November 2007):
 why not stop asking yourself this and worrying about it just wait till next week and then see if she is serious or not lol , if she is she will go to lunch if she isnt she wont
take care
chris
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (23 November 2007):
 Maybe she likes u but prefers to know u better b4 compromise or going further, have fun go out without pressuring her and see what happens if u don't get a relationship maybe u will get a friend u know
have fun
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (23 November 2007):
 It is possible that she might be avoind you but it is not certain. I would say if she really gave you detail of her reasons of not going our for lunch that day, chances are she really means what she says and she will show up next week for lunch. But I would caution you not not ask yourself again next week for lunch and wait her to inply her own promise. If she forgets about it ask her the week later and ask her to choose any day during the week. if she says no with no detailed acceptable reason then yes she is trying to avoid you.
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (23 November 2007):
 Ok so she couldnt make it this time, but she has said she WILL, so NO she is not avoiding you, she simply couldnt make it.
Go ahead ask her now if she wants to go out next week, if you make dates in advance rather than spur of the moment, you will get a better chance of a date because its not such short notice.
Go for it hun xxxxxxx
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (23 November 2007):
 Hey hold on she did offer to go on a date with you next week, so all is not lost. She is not avoiding you at all, as she did offer to meet up with you next week, so stop beating yourself up my dear. If you show yourself too desperate, you will lose her and you don't want that do you? So darling just go with the flow. Good Luck Dusky xx
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