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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hi there I am 21 years old my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for 3 years. Our sex life was great but recently he doesn't want to have sex as much as he use to, I now have to make the first move but he always says he's tired and doesn't want to do it. Is this behavior normal or is he not attracted to me. what can i do to change this or is he cheating. How can we get back to the way thing were.
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reader, loretta +, writes (14 May 2007):
hey, i felt exactly the same as you do, we used to argue about this all the time. i think its normal 4 men to loose their sex drive, but do get it bk.i wouldn't worrie about it to much.
try telling him how much this hurts u and is damaging ur confidents. that dosen't mean he should want to jump in bed wiv u straight away,but will let him know how much this is effecting u.
suggest watching porn 2gether or buy some sex toys to spice things up abit.
a sex life is is important in a relationship,he ur guy continues to act in such a way then maybe its time u met sum1 who can meet ur needs an make u happy
i hope my advice has helped u out , good luck xxxxxx
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