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writes:hey, i am 15 years old and i know that people say that it is to young to be in love but i am, i also know that however is reading this is having a good laugh but i don't care i just need to speak to someone. anyway i am in love he has sent me a text saying if i wanted to shag him no strings attached. i mean i sent him a text back saying i couldn't do it with no strings attached i mean he doesn't know how i feel. even if he doesn't know does this text mean he just sees me as a quick shag or does he really like me?? please help. and while i have you what does repress mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2007): I was a fifteen year old boy once, I was not very confident where girls were concerned and while I didn't ask for No Stirngs attached sex, I probably made a dick of myself plenty. In my deepest gut feelings though I felt like I only wanted to have sex with a girl I did love. I just never knew how to achieve that and spent a lot of time lonely, confused and isolated. Maybe you love this boy and maybe you don't, maybe he feels the same and maybe e don't. Maybe he's just as confused and ignorant as I was at that age and maybe he's a bastard. Of course he wants sex, ever heard the phrase "young, dumb, full of cum". We all go through it. Best thing to do is find out what he really wants. But you don't have to screw him to find out.
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reader, doog +, writes (15 May 2007):
Can you be in love at 15 ? Of course you can !Can you have sex at 15 ? Again of course you can, it may be illegal but it happens all the time.Now you have feelings for this lad, and yet he doesn't know ... you haven't told him.15 year old lads have one thing on their minds trust me , and its not holding hands and being together forever.Now i'm guessing you must have given of some signals for him to ask to sleep with you. I think what you need to do is let the lad know your feelings, he might yet surprise you.Trust me as you get older and with more experience you wouldn't put up with this 'lets just shag' with someone you love. Let him know your feelings and if he has feelings then cool, dont just sleep him make him prove hes not just after sex.If he dont have the same feelings DONT try and change him or sleep with him in the hope he will fall for you....he wont.If you go with the 'no ties' sex then take it as just that .....no ties, it will never be more.Have fun what ever you decide and make sure your safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): hi hunny
first of all your only 15 so it would be ilegal to sleep with him
second you make like him but are you even ready for sex?
and i hate to say it hun but he sounds like a jerk - asking for sex no strings attached he's obviously looking for one thing and you really shouldn't give it to him
hope you make the right choice
think about it very carefully
xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): I think you need to think about this - you are under 15 you surely don't want to have a quick shag and then find yourself pregnant. I had the same problem so i gave my BF a quick hand and mouth job and he buggered off so why not give him a blow job
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reader, towapa +, writes (15 May 2007):
 Sorry to say this, but this boy clearly only wants to use you for sex. Forget about him and PLEASE, just move on. You deserve someone better than this and besides, you're a bit too young to be having sex. Try hanging out with your friends more, like having a girly night in or going bowling. :)
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reader, macboy  +, writes (15 May 2007):
 He said no stings attached.
He just wants to shag you, nothing more.
He doens't like you, and he is not worth hanging around.
Don't do it.
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