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writes:hi. i had a fight wit my gfriend 2months ago. since then we really talk and wheneva we talk most she has nonclear answers eg if i ask her if we still together she tells me she doesnt know. my qn is -is has she lost interst in me or she is playing hard to get. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, penta  +, writes (14 May 2007):
 She may be on defense now. She may have been more hurt than she let on, and now is closed to make sure you don't hurt her again. Was anything said that was below the belt? What was the fight about? You need to get her to talk to you, and fast, or the relationship is over.
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reader, fairydust  +, writes (14 May 2007):
 it depends on what your row was about but unless you have been having trouble for a while i doubt she will have lost intrest because you cant jus turn your feelings on and off.
have you tried taking her out and talking about the issus you where rowing over this might resolve the issue if not be firm with her and demand a straight forward answer if it is over or not because you have a right to know. good luck i hope things work out for you.
fairydust x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): shes not playing hard to get, its just her way of saying shes still upset and you need to work harder to get things back to normal. Maybe she wants space? Have you asked her how she's feeling since the fight? You may need to communicate more in your relationship.
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