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writes: There is this girl at work who is really cool, we got cool with one another through a freind and been saying hello and talking to one another from that day. Now I don't want to mess things up but I really wanting to ask her out but thats when I looked down on her hand and saw a ring. Now some females wear rings on their ring finger and thats just for show. How do I ask her if thats a I'm married ring or just jewlery to wear to work and keep men away. Also age might play a role in it if she wants to be around me or be with me in a relationship if things was to go to the next level we might be a couple of years apart or more. Some people that talk to her said that she doesn't give out her number or want to hook up with people at work. So as you can see this girl is a great person to be around and talk to and I don't want to mess that up trying to get her on a date plus putting myself out there to be played. In a way maybe I think she kind of likes me because one day after not seeing her for a week she said that she was looking for me and that she had miss me. Oh yeah I'm still at home at the time being until I get back on my feet and have no car untill next month, this is the biggest strike against me. Sucks to be me :(
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reader, eddie  +, writes (15 May 2007):
 Why don't yo just continue talking to her about general things. Ask her what she does in her spare time. If she is involved with someone, his name will probably come up. When she tells you about her pastimes, you might get some information that tells you what you need to know. You can also assume she's married and in your conversation, as her how long she's been with her partner. If she tells yo she's not with anybody, just tell her you thought she was, because of the ring. If she is decent, polite etc. she'll answer the question, provided you know her as well as you say you do. I find it strange that it's never come up in conversation before though.
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