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writes:Well I like this guy who is just awsome.He cares about me he doesnt want me to skip school or hang around with bad influences.So this guy also talks to my friends.Well a couple days ago my friends called him and he went over their house.Well him and my friend started to flirt with each other and were practically fooling around.He drove her home.I dont know what to do. I really like this guy a lot.I dont know what to do with either of them. Should I continue talking to my friend even though she hooked up with the guy that i liked? Should I continue talking to the guy? Neither of them have called me.Tomorrow is school and I really dont want to talk to my so called friend.What should I do?
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reader, Midge  +, writes (14 May 2007):
 Firstly, a true friend will always be there for you, so if its a choice between a friend and some guy, go for the friend. Even though she may have done something totally wrong, perhaps she thought that since you hadnt made a move on him, it was okay to do so.
If you like this guy so much, why not test the water and see where he stands. If he likes you, then perhaps you need to say or do something to see what happens next.
Also, perhaps you should talk to your friend and tell her that you like him, and that she shouldnt be doing that to you.
The other side is that perhaps she likes the guy too, and if thats the case, you need to do something quick to see where his feelings lie.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (14 May 2007):
 "I really dont want to talk to my so called friend"
Since you wrote this, it is clear what you should do.
Neither of them have called you after that, and you should not be the first to call them.
I suppose that your friend knew your feelings for this guy.
Because if not, it gives a different vision of the situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): Have self esteem and forget about both. There's a lot of betrayal here. You can't trust neither. Don't base your happiness on someone else but in yourself. Believe that you are someone valuable and don't accept this behavior from people you thought cared about you.
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