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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend is being protective of his female friend of his for some reason and I dont understand why. While I was out of town, he took her to a soccer game, and then when I asked he was reluctant to say but threatened our relationship to be over. Then, he creates a myspace account because she had one, when I asked him why, he reacted very strongly to me. Now, I am apart from him for 1 week, and he's acting very funny to me: one minute he is sad and missing me, the next he says he is too busy to talk to me. I am starting to believe that mayb there is much more. He was attending an event, and he told me who was there and who wasnt and i was shocked that she didnt go, so i said "why not?" and he already had a reply knowing the reason. Am I just too paranoid about this or is there something that I may b fearing of ? He's been staying online later these days claiming he needs to work, but he was logged into facebook. Im losing my mind.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (14 May 2007):
 Well, there is an emotional connection between them.
All the rest here will only be based on assumptions.
I can interpet his actions in different ways depending on his type of personality or preferred pattern of relationship.
Lack of trust may be grounded in the lack of understanding.
If you are fearing of his physical betrayal, there is not enough evidence for that at the moment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): although their is a chance that nothing is going on, from my experience's it seems like their is. unless the two of you have a protective relationship and neither of you really trust one another that much, their is most probably something going on. him being defensive over it only gives you more reason to believe so. even if their is nothing going on now it shows much possibility. do not automatically assume so though you could end up ruining your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): My boyfriend is also being acting weird since he opened his myspace and friendorama accounts recently. I just wanted to let you know that in no way on Earth you are being paranoid. Be suspicious! Do what I did read the: "32 Emotional Signs That He's Cheating" and evaluate him. You can find it at: http://love.ivillage.com/lnsproblems/lnscheating/0,,nt4p,00.html Then,take the appropriate action. Good Luck!
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