A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: When I'm with a girl I'm easily aroused. Something as simple as making out often causes me to blow my load and it's rather frustrating. I've had this problem for as long as I can remember(since I was 17). Only thing I've found to offset it is when I'm drunk and I'd rather not have to get wasted in order to perform. Any helpful words are welcome. Thanks
View related questions:
drunk Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Fairy. Any idea what a doctor would be able to do about it or at least suggest? Just thinking about something else is going to take a lot of effort...
A
female
reader, fairydust +, writes (14 May 2007):
hi my ex had this problem when he was younger and found thinking of non sexual thing worked best for him when he didnt want to get too arroused. have tou been to your gp or sexual health clinick as they may be able to advise you more on things to try or tests you can have. but until you do try not to keep thinking about it as this will only make the problem worse, the mor you think it will happen the ore it will. i hope you get sorted soon good luck x
...............................
A
female
reader, fairydust +, writes (14 May 2007):
hi my ex had this problem when he was younger and found thinking of non sexual thing worked best for him when he didnt want to get too arroused. have tou been to your gp or sexual health clinick as they may be able to advise you more on things to try or tests you can have. but until you do try not to keep thinking about it as this will only make the problem worse, the mor you think it will happen the ore it will. i hope you get sorted soon good luck x
...............................
|