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What can I do to not become aroused so easily?

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Question - (14 May 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

When I'm with a girl I'm easily aroused. Something as simple as making out often causes me to blow my load and it's rather frustrating. I've had this problem for as long as I can remember(since I was 17). Only thing I've found to offset it is when I'm drunk and I'd rather not have to get wasted in order to perform. Any helpful words are welcome. Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2007):

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Thanks Fairy. Any idea what a doctor would be able to do about it or at least suggest? Just thinking about something else is going to take a lot of effort...

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A female reader, fairydust United Kingdom +, writes (14 May 2007):

fairydust agony aunthi my ex had this problem when he was younger and found thinking of non sexual thing worked best for him when he didnt want to get too arroused. have tou been to your gp or sexual health clinick as they may be able to advise you more on things to try or tests you can have. but until you do try not to keep thinking about it as this will only make the problem worse, the mor you think it will happen the ore it will. i hope you get sorted soon good luck x

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A female reader, fairydust United Kingdom +, writes (14 May 2007):

fairydust agony aunthi my ex had this problem when he was younger and found thinking of non sexual thing worked best for him when he didnt want to get too arroused. have tou been to your gp or sexual health clinick as they may be able to advise you more on things to try or tests you can have. but until you do try not to keep thinking about it as this will only make the problem worse, the mor you think it will happen the ore it will. i hope you get sorted soon good luck x

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