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writes:hey, i'm eighteen and bisexual.recently, me and my (straight) best friend, have been doing stuff together such as fingering and kissing.but it tends to only happen when we're drunk, and i highly doubt she can ever remember any of it because she never says anything days later.i can remember everything we always do together, i think i'm in love with her.but i'm scared to tell her my true feelings.when we're both drunk, she comes onto me sexually and she touches my vagina and breasts.it feels so good, but is she bisexual?i'm a bit confused because she's always told me she's straight.maybe it's the alcohol that makes her sexually frustrated towards me, i don't know.should i tell her the things we do when we're drunk?surely she can remember it, because i can!she's so damn good at licking aswell, like asif she's done it before..argh i'm so confused!please help :(
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (14 May 2007):
 It could be that she's just experimenting. It happened to me with a friend once too.
To tell the truth, I don't think she could be unaware of what she's doing, even if she doesn't discuss it with you after she has sobered up. Maybe she is having a bad conscience about it or doesn't want to admit to liking women.
Next time she gets drunk and approaches you, tell her you'd rather do it with her when she's sober and see what happens. In any case, seeing as you're starting to develop feelings for her, I think it's better for you not to have sexual relations with her until she "becomes aware" of what she's doing. It must hurt a lot to have these fantastic moments with her and then have her act as if it didn't happen the day after.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): I would say there has to be some connection, drunk or not people remember things and I would almost bet she wouldnt say anythingto you about it but she uses the nights she is drunk to do it because if she didnt want to come clean about it she wouldnt have to. Give it time and then check for patterns like does she always get drunk around you now? If the answer is yes then she enjoys it just as much as you, the problem is getting her to admit to it. See she is straight but very expieramental and it seems you guys have did this more than once so she must like it to. Hang in there.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (14 May 2007):
 "should i tell her the things we do when we're drunk?"
She told you she's straight, and you should believe her.
Advice about "i'm scared to tell her my true feelings":
Regardless of whether she has such tendences, probably she doesn't want to discuss it.
Here is a conflict between her actions and her beliefs.
I will not lecture you on the effects of alcopops on human behavior - you don't need that.
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