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writes:I am in a same sex relationship and have been with my partner for 4 year. I have recently moved in together. Since we have moved in things seem to have gone wrong. We dont talk as much, dont show each other any affection. I'm not sure if this is the right thing for us. I dont want to throw years away but I want us both to be happy. Please can you give me any advice. Thanks
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reader, gf123 +, writes (15 May 2007):
 Things are bound to change when you make a commitment such as moving in together and perhaps you are both finding it hard to deal with that.
The time a couple spends together while they are living apart is more limited and is structured around simply being together because you want to be. When you move in together, the time you spend in each others' company dramatically increases and you experience all the mundane elements of life in a partnership.
I would suggest setting aside time dedicated to doing things together as a couple. These should be things you enjoyed doing together before you moved in together. Hopefully this should remind you why you love each other. If this doesn't work then perhaps you will know that this wasn't the right thing to do.
Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): i think becuase you guys moved in togeather you feel as though you dont have to show affection anymore or just neglected it, do the types of things that you did when you first fell inlove.
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