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writes:This boy has been sending me a message like 3 times a month for almost 6 months but never looking willing to meet, we only met in some friend's parties like 4 times in about 1 year and they told me he had an intererest in me but he never showed it to me and failed to meet me 2 times I told her where I would be having a drink, after this 2 timens he kept sending a message from time to time sometimes not answering me for the whole weekend yesterday I got a txt msg not a call from him asking me to go to the movies this night, I have a bit of a flue and I'm ran our because of my new job as management secretary and a bit down about this guy cos of his previous lack of interest I answered him I was a bit ill and that I would tell in case I got better and if not phone him sometime to have a little talk. Is it ok if I do so and saty home or will he get upset??? any tips please answer soon it's today nite love Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2007): Hey!!
I think its the perfect thing to do. Because he failed to meet with you, i think its good that you 'fail' to meet him too. It makes it clear to him that he cant have everything exactly how and when he wants it but that you have your own life too.
If hes at all a decent guy, he'll respect that, and maybe ask you out another time.
If you are keen of him, make sure you continue to txt him or call him - otherwise he may think that you are making up excuses not to meet up with him - and then he'll give up!
Let me know how it all goes!
Love, Leonie
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