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writes:Okay, right there's this boy and we both like each other, we see each other at school and that and we get on really well, i've known him for about 10 months now, and we've been out with each other, but we kept splitting up and going back out. And now we want to go back out, but the only thing stopping us is my mum, she is saying she doesn't want me to see him only at school,I want her to see that it's not going to be the same as it was before, she just won't listen to me though, but we really love each other, and we want to make it work. What should I do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all your advice.But i have another problem,right this same boy, i've said to him that we can't be together and i've tried to talk to my mum, but she's still against it, and he wont understand and now i think hes trying to turn the tables and make out it'a all my fault, he'll keep on and on at me and won't let it go for ages, i dont think i have any feelings for him anymore for what he's doing, i don't want him to keep bringing me down like he has done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007): you say its gonna be different this time? why?
chances are, its gonna be the same. people dont change that easily.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2007): hey, before i try to give you some advice, could you please explain to me exactly why your mother disagrees with your relationship with him.
Hope you reply soon so that i can help you.
Leonie x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2007): This 10 month relationship that are having with this boy can't exactly be that good if you keep on splitting up before going out with each other time and time again. Maybe that's why your mum is so concerned. When you say that you both want to make your relationship work how are you sure that it is going to be different this time round. Give up on this boy and move on. You'll get over him in time.
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reader, Emma here to help  +, writes (3 March 2007):
Your mum just cares about you, try talking to her when shes alone and tell her this is what you want and this is what will make you happy tell her that you really love this boy and that she can`t ever break up true love try to make her understand how you feel about him and maybe she`ll give in
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