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writes:I spilt with my partner of 17 years and it has been about seven months since we split. She has not made any contact with me since.S he intiaited the spilt and later I found out that she was seeing someone else within a couple of weeks. I took things pretty badly and have been to counselling which has helped me to move on and rebuild my life.I still think about her alot. Is this natural to still have feelings after 7 months apart and no contact?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007): Hi, i split with my husband of 10 years 7 months ago also, and i am no where near over the breakup, and dont expect to be anytime soon. As all my friends and family have told me, it takes time and i know that trying to rebuild your life is really hard after being part of a couple for a long time. Finding out about me has been good though, and finding new interests, ive been doing salsa dancing classes for a few months and its wonderful, I would recommend to anyone and everyone!Keep smiling and remember you will think of your ex, but it will become less over time, im hoping so anyway!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007): Its perfactly normal to still have feelings for her, especially after you had been together as long as 17 years. I've seen people still think about someone and have feelings for them when they weren't even together a whole year. The heart takes time to heal, you'll get over her with time.
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reader, sunrise +, writes (3 March 2007):
 Hi,it is natural, it shows that you are a warm sensitve person who's feelings for this woman were deep. Yes she hurt you and you have dealt with this but it still affects you because you were together for such a long time and the memories of all the good times are still with you.
You will continue to move on because you are stronger now and have started to rebuild your life. I wish you all the luck and happiness in the world for the future. x
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