A
female
 ,
anonymous
writes:ok so....loads of girls where i live dont like me....i dnt no y but they dont! i just heard 2nite that there are rumours going around sayin im a slag and sleep with every1 but thats not true! im thinking its maybe cause (not bein big headed!!!) i get attention from blokes and others (who do not like me) do not as much that they get jealous! i am nearly 19 and cannot be bothered with this school girl attitude! i really want to move away to get away from the bitchiness! its not like they say it to me but u can tell when they r around that they do not like me and its a shame cause im not a nasty person. even adult single mums with children seem to have a problem with me, giving me looks and that!!! why are these girls/women being like this? and why the rumours?! or are rumours what every1 gets and thats life? xxxxx
View related questions:
jealous Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, cd206 +, writes (31 March 2007):
 You're right. You're all too old for this schoolgirl behaviour. Just an observation though.... To get away with acting like this these girls need to be able to act like theyre still in school and make you feel bad about yourself. My bet is that if you act like you don't care they'll soon get fed up. After all, that tactic worked in the playground. It's got to be worth a try.
CD
A
reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007): First of all you don’t deserve all this you know you don’t!
The thing is though when these things happen theirs no one can do anything about this accept you,
Now this may seem like a funny answer but think about it, what could you do differently that could stop it?
What I mean is adopt a new attitude you said yourself your not going to enter into their childish games,
So adopt an attitude that says fair enough little people,
The looks from the Mums might not be really there! But you’re bound to be paranoid
You must be attractive so work it be proud you’ve made them bitter twisted people jealous, Talk to them the silly girls and young mums even if they’re not kind to you kill them with kindness,
Example: “Hi how are you? Listen I’m just off to town doing a bit of shopping (or whatever) I’ll see yas later”
This is the easiest method especially when there snotty with you look at them smile sweetly because if you do you’ve won, They’ll have no choice but to treat you better don’t go over board but just act like they haven’t hurt you and your too busy being fabulous you,
to even notice there behavior! Lads sometimes do make the best Friends anyway stick with them,
and Take care x x x
...............................
|
