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I really love him, but hes not good in the sack! How do I tell him!?

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Question - (31 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hiya.

How do you tell someone you really love that he is not very good in bed and that you have never had an orgasm when sleeping with him?

please help!!

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A male reader, winter_one United Kingdom +, writes (31 March 2007):

I suspect that just blurting out that he's not very good would not help matters and would just damage his confidence, in turn damaging your relationship with him.

When you're in bed, make sure he knows you love him and that you love sleeping with him, then talk to him about what you'd like him to do and what presses your buttons. Take the time to guide him, and you'll be surprised at the results.

A couple's sex life, like a fine wine, improves with age - however communication is the key here and is vital for this to happen.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007):

If you love someone so much then it shouldn't matter what they are like having sex. After all, what would you prefer: someone who you love and isn't good at having sex or someone who you don't love but is brilliant at sex? Exactly. Anyway, if you want the sex to be better with him why don't you tell him what you like?

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