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writes:Me and my girlfriend will start trying for a baby in a few weeks and i've got a few questions1) if i have sex with no comdoms will that work?2) sould i say 2 her she sould take pills or anythingi've tried for a kid with another girl and we did it 4 .. about 2 months and i got her pregnant.so it proves i can get a girl pregnant. do u think i sould go and get my sperm checked?any help would be great thank you.
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reader, helpiswhatineed  +, writes (3 December 2007):
but the way the question is i doubt you are of age and i hope that your parents bust your butt for thinking of a child so young, wait and grow up and hope your driving test for your permit goes well since i doubt your even 16 yet
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007): Sure, I've got a tip for you: DON'T try to get this girl pregnant. In fact, better yet, stop seeing her completely and let her be free to find someone who will want to be committed to her and marry her.You she does not deserve.Any baby deserves two parents who are there for him/her all the time. You don't have a job, either. Go back to your ex and marry HER if she was "the one" and have a baby with her - or adopt one.Do other women a favor and don't try messing with them - your selfishness is unbelievable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): Does this girl know that you're never going to marry her? If not, you should probably talk to her about it. And making her have a kid just coz you want to be a father is not totally right. I mean, I do realize what's right and what's wrong is highly subjective, but maybe you should have a child with someone you truly love and want to spend your life with. A child should come out of love. I think the child deserves that too - to have a family, a mother and father who love each other. Maybe you should consider relieving her of the pressure you're putting on her. Have a child when you have found someone you love, someone you don't have to push into having a baby, someone who wants it as much as you do. Wouldn't you feel better and happier about that too?
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reader, I Waited For The One +, writes (1 April 2007):
I Waited For The One is verified as being by the original poster of the question Nope never gonna marry this girl ever!!!
nope dont have a job ... but i'm doing my driveing lessions and when i pass in 2-3 months time i wanna be a van driver and 1 day maybe a HGV driver thats y i wanna try for a family now because in 3-5 yrs time i may be on the road to much
i know its wrong not 2 marry this girl and let me explan
when i first started haveing sex i was with my ex and she was the girl of my dreams ... still is and we tried 4 a kid and she had a miscarriage and i asked her 2 marry me.
and i thought i would never do it again because of the respect 4 ex
thank you all 4 the answers
dnt have any kids ... nearly did.
p.s - where not trying till we been 2gehter 2 months i wanted 3 but she wants 2 oh well.
p.s - been with her 1 month
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): Let's hope that you are looking after your first child and any children you may have thereafter. At 25 years old that is not too old to start having a child. But I hope you have a career, etc.. going on here because having children is expensive. Please be responsible, good Luck. Oh, by the way do you intend to marry your girlfriend? Just asking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): Dear, by your questions and the way you express yourself, it's obvious you are a kid. Right now you shouldn't be thinking about having no babies. You should be thinking about studying, sports and becoming a man first of all. Don't you start getting pregnant every girl you go out with. Please think! How are you going to provide for these kids? Life is not a game. Being a parent is a serious matter. I suggest you look for healthy challenges in your life, don't get yourself into lots of Child Support issues at such a young age.
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reader, I Waited For The One +, writes (1 April 2007):
I Waited For The One is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe Girl is 20 nearly 21 in September
i'm 24 nearly 25 In June
i kind of pushed my new bird into haveing this baby not because i'm an ass or anything because i'm getting on a bit and wanna be 1 day playing football with my kid not an old man when he or she turns 20 and cnt do nofthing
any help would be great
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): Hey, I'm sorry, but I happen to remember some of your past questions that you have posted on here. Is this the same girl that is 16 years old? It would be good to know that before imparting advice here. Thanks.
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