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writes: I was having great sex with my girlfriend last night (Friday). I am 22 years old and suffer from ED and had got a new Rx from my doc and was trying it out for the first time. I used Trojan w/ spermicidal. Everything was great until about 2 minutes before we both orgasmed. She was on top the whole time and she came off and back on so it must have slipped off during that time. I did no t notice it. Then I came inside her. I normally NEVER do this. I am worried about getting her pregnant. After words I got up right after and noticed that the condom was gone. I told her it was not there and probably stuck in her. She went to feel and it was not there. She tried to find it but couldn't. I then tried to manually retrieve it from her vagina and was able to. It was up there though... My middle finger barely was able to touch it. She said she pulled a lot of fluids out prior to me getting it out. She then was able to was up. But she is worried. She has not taken her Birth Control in over three months, but then took it last night and this morning. She has not had her period in a little over the three months.Should I do something else? I.E. get the morning after pill? How readily available is it? I am in Florida. Also how much is it? My girlfriend is very much anti abortion but she is not against MAP. Suggestions?
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reader, countrculture +, writes (1 April 2007):
I've had this same issue and it sucks until you find out if it worked or not. Don't stress. Go to Planned Parenthood and you can get the morning after pill there. She will have to be the one to get them so go together, since they refuse to sell them to men. It will cost a bit (I don't remember how much), but she takes a couple of pills over a day or two, then you wait about week and have her take a pregnancy test. The fear you have won't leave until you know for sure, but try to stay calm. The calmer you stay about the whole thing, the easier it will be for her. Good luck.
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