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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Over the past two week i have become really close with someone i never really knew beforen then; Best friend close. Pretty quick, the only probelm however is that i now reallly like her and she has along term boyfriend (1 year) i'm getting mixed signals and she says said tom e that she was "just goin along with the relationship now". Nevertheless when i go round her house or meet up with her there are all these reminders that she has a long term boyfriend, do i possible destroy a close and good friendship for nothing other than telling her i like her or keep quiet and feel like i am lying to her? Please help!
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reader, bootifulxxbrunet  +, writes (1 April 2007):
 Well the thing you have to remember is that, you should always follow your heart. If you feel that it would relieve not only you, but her as well to go ahead and tell her how you feel, then do it. Disregard what "could happen" to the both of you because you must like her for a reason.Basically, in a situation like this, which I have been in...As a girl, she might be really in love with her boyfriend...BUT on another note, she might not be. You really can never tell. If she isn't in love with him and is having feelings for you, then you can benefit from that. If not, then you can never say that you didn't at least try. But honestly it is all in what you want, and what you do. You must follow your heart...and your heart will lead you into the right direction.
xoxox Ash xoxoxo
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