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anonymous
writes:hi there.....me and my gf are gonna take things a step further really soon and i was just wondering how to give really great oral sex... and also shes had some before and i havent so how can i be her best ever....any tips would be extremly appriciated...thank youall the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2007): Well, I like when my boyfriend sucks slightly
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reader, Agonize  +, writes (24 April 2007):
There's only one answer to this question.
Everyone is different and as I'm sure you know, everyone likes different things at different times.
You have to ask her what she likes, and ask her to let you know what she wants during it.
Communication is the key here and it's the same for you, make sure she knows what's good for you, what you like a what you don't.
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reader, peppersalt +, writes (11 April 2007):
another reader said do it really hard... well personally that doesn't help! from what I know of guys, I'm very different to them in how I like stimulation. most guys will come fairly easily from normal up down hand stimulation, but I find it easier to come from really gentle licking and sucking of my clit than from someone diving in and going really hard. that usually just either hurts or makes me go numb and turns me off. I have to be tipped over the edge really slowly and gently if that makes sense.
just experiment doing lots of different things, and tell her to tell you if you do something she particularly likes. make sure she's really turned on first. once you're doing something and she says she likes it, keep doing it at all costs, it can take a long time of the same repeated stimulation for some women to come (me included) and if you suddenly change or stop the buildup can just disappear. the key is communication, you won't intuitively know what she likes, so make sure she isn't too shy to say I like that, keep doing that, ow that hurts etc. I don't come very easily and the only ways I've ever been able to with a guy going down on me is to let him know what I like and tell him to keep going.
Gooood luck! :D
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (31 March 2007):
 And one more thing. Women are different. One woman I've been with recently will explode practically as soon as I get good and started doing her. Another one can require half an hour or more of concentrated tongue work, paying careful attention to how her body is reacting and going harder or softer to suit how she is responding, plus working inside her on her g-spot with a finger or two (and sometimes she needs one and sometimes she needs two, and the situations are NOT interchangeable for this woman!)
Oh, and about 80% of the women I've been with in recent years have just absolutely loved it if I give them a minute or two to rest after orgasm and then start just VERY lightly running the tips of my fingers over their bodies ... back, arms, legs, face, – not intimate places necessarily, just anywhere. Their skin is usually VERY sensitive for quite some time and they seem to love that.
Enjoy!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (31 March 2007):
 Here are a couple of links to start you on your way. I'm sure you'll find them helpful. As long as you both relax and enjoy one another's bodies then everything else will fall into place. You'll know whether she's enjoying it or not by the sounds she makes.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_cunnilingus.shtml
http://uk.askmen.com/love/love_tip/36_love_tip.html
Remember, performing oral sex on a woman is called "cunnilingus". For more tips, just type the word into google and you'll get plenty help.
Good luck! ;o)
Eve
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reader, Ac.Joker +, writes (31 March 2007):
 Well, allways make sure you are ontop, and start things off passionate, kiss her neck, put your tounge in her ear ect. and then just start... And just do it really hard, hold her legs open by her knees... And look up any moves on the internet xD there is actauly virus free websites for that kinda stuff ....
Anywho's, I proably havnt helped.. But good luck, and you seem like a nice guy nyways, so all the best to you.
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reader, thor +, writes (31 March 2007):
 take it slow, dont dive straight in. start from kissing and work your way down. dont miss anything. when you get there if you dont like the taste add a bit of yogurt or fresh cream. its tasty. keeps you there for ages
good luck
thor
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