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writes:is my boyfriend seeing someone else my boyfriend have been working away for a week while he was away i didnt heard from him then tonight he calls me asking how i am and stuff and if i've met someone else i said no thn asked if i have a sex life and asked me what i've been upto and stuff thn said i've got 4 dayz off work this week then said i was only phoning to see if your alright thn hang up so is he seeing someone else
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reader, Lia +, writes (31 March 2007):
 Hi there
It is a bit weird that he was away for a week and didn't contact you - I admit sometimes that can be a sign that something's up. It's not right for someone to not talk to you for that long when they're away and then hang up on you! When he comes back you should keep your eyes open for any behaviour that's unlike him and see if he phones you and makes plans to see you. After not seeing you for a week, he should miss you and not be able to wait to get back! If he seems different, then talk to him openly about what you're thinking and see if you can get to the bottom of this. Good luck!
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reader, thor +, writes (31 March 2007):
 you didnt say if meaning working away was in different country or somewhere in uk. if he is abroad and he doesnt stay in regular touch it could be down to expence. if he uses a mobile it costs him to recieve calls from you and also he might not get a reception. also maybe no time in day to make a call. if a guy doesnt always contact you it doesnt mean he isnt thinking about you or has fallen out of love with you. a week away is nothing. i'm sure he is inocent. him asking you if you have met someone else could mean he is insecure and thinking the way you are towards him.
hope this was of any help
take care
thor
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (31 March 2007):
 Impossible to tell. Sounds like he has an active interest in YOUR sex life, though. If you're having sex with him, I'd be a bit worried if he's back in town with four days off and he didn't come to see you. If he's still out of town or if you're not on intimate terms yet, that phone call could probably be taken at face value ... he just wanted to know how you are.
Wait until he's available again and see how he reacts to you once you start seeing him again.
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