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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My man leaves me at home all the time and goes out with his friends.In short he prefers spending time with his friends than with me!What should I do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): i dont think he prefers them to you,all men need space either with the lads or with their toys,mine does.have a chat with him tell him how you feel an how much this upsets you,other than that you get out with the girls and enjoy yourself.
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reader, countrculture  +, writes (1 April 2007):
Talk to him about it because there are a few likely scenarios which all involve him thinking you and his friends won't get along.
1. He would be embarressed to show you his friends because he will most likely be routinely apologizing for them. They crack rude jokes, make crude comments, or lead sad lives.
2. He thinks his friends will harp on him about you and doesn't want that. Maybe they'll make jokes about him being whipped or something, or maybe his friends won't approve of you.
3. You and his friends are different and just plain wouldn't get along.
4. He truly is a jerk and him and his buddies go cruising for chicks.
There's probably more, but my advice is to talk to him about it and find out why, what reason does he have for not taking you to meet and hang out with his friends. Then, no matter what he says, tell him you want to meet and hang out with them all anyway.
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