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writes:hey i really hope you can help. well it may seem just a small problem but i really dont seem to get it right with boys they come and go, when they are forgetting me my feelings and they just trampalling all over me im just so fed up and i really want someone who will like me for me everyone else has found the one maybe its just me here we go again see im neva gonna find mr right! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007): Sucks huh? Something to consider: look within for the answers. Sometimes we attract relationships that aren't good for us because we have lessons to learn about ourselves or strengths to discover. If you don't want to be trampled on, don't let anyone do it. 14 is a good age to discover where our boundaries lie with people... especially boys!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007): im exactly the same as yew some 1 once told me to define love and yew can't a general definaiton is love is never having to say it outloud. But ive decided every 1 knows what love shud look like and feel like in their head and when yew hav expirienced it then yew can define it. You must know what yew want what you ideal boyfriend would luk like and act like, and when you get that then you have found Mr Right, eventually he will find you. Untill then just enjoy having different boyfriends but never stay with sum 1 who treats yew like crap yew wana be with sum 1 who treats yew like a princess cuz ll girls are!!!good luck hunneh x x x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007): You are only young so you don't have to worry about finding mr right just yet. You have to just carry on going out with different boys until you find your mr right. Just remember, enjoy going out with boys and also, having your heart broken is just a normal part of the dating scene. Most people end up having their heart broken.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (31 March 2007):
 Lots of teenage boys have the attention span of a fruit fly. Don't push too hard to find THE one, because you are changing as fast as they are changing right now, and you will be someone entirely different in three years or five years than you are now. And so will any guy you may be dating.
Just relax. You're out to have a good time (you don't need to have sex to have fun, by the way!) and to get to know more about how guys behave (or, mostly, misbehave, at your age). They forget your feelings because they're all about ME ME ME, too often. But get to know them anyway. You'll learn a lot about them, and may even teach them a thing or two. Hard as it may be for you to believe, YOU are actually more mature than almost all the guys your age.
So stay friendly and just be "date bait" without seeming too easy. You don't need just one guy at this point in your life. You need a broader base of experience in social interactions with a number of guys so you get to know the differences. Then you can start to tell the good ones from the bad ones. Then when one comes along, eventually, who DOES take your breath away, your head will be alert enough to know if he's a decent sort or not, in spite of what your heart and your glands are telling you.
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reader, Cag Lee "Apollo" Adarma +, writes (31 March 2007):
 Hey BBF,
first, learn now there is no such thing as a "Mr Right" there is only a person who you can make something work with that is positive,progressive, and based on trust .
secondly,you like what 14? Mr Right is not a going concern for you right now. I know the pressure from friends to have a "boyfriend" must be strong but i would advise you to feel your life with a lot more things than boyfriends and relationships now because you'll always have time for that and as you get older you'll have less time for everything else.
Some may disagree with me, but its true as you get older you always say " i wish i had done that activity, or gone there, or explored this subject". As a human being we are in the constant quest for love, so it will be something that is a constant in your life. Build yourself as a person, once you know yourself it will be alot easier for you to see what kind of person you should be with or DESERVES your affection.
Hope this helps
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reader, AskEve +, writes (31 March 2007):
 You might be looking too hard, trying too hard to get it right. Sometimes it's when we least expect it that we fall into a relationship. The main thing is that you are approachable, friendly, caring and not too loud or bolshy. If you look happy and smile a lot then you will attract men to you! Walking around with too much to say or having a permanent scowl on your face will chase guys away.
Just be you, light, friendly and approachable and don't appear too desperate and if you DO get a date with a guy then DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM TOO SOON!!!! Worst mistake ever!
Eve
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