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He's already made out with her and he's only TEN!

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Question - (14 June 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Recently My 10 year old cousin who lives with us has got a new girlfriend but shes 13 and I dont trust her and when she comes round , they run straight up to his bedroom and if I walk in they suddenly jump and shout at me to get out and he's already made out with her and hes only 10! Also I was sneaking around his bedroom when I cam across some Comdoms in his underwear draw!

Im really worried HelP!?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007):

hey, when i was 6 upwards i would play with girls and other boys did likewise. kids touch n play n learn all the time.

10 is not too young to kiss/make out

y dont u speak to him and say u were worried but say its cool him having a girlfriend but why the condoms.

at ten, he is prob not too big and prob not producing sperm yet.

worst case scenario? he is being sensible using condoms

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (15 June 2007):

DrPsych agony auntI find it a bit strange that a 13 year old girl would find a 10 year old boy interesting - girls mature faster than boys and frankly she is a world away from him developmentally. I wouldn't have thought at 10 he would be capable of a full-on relationship unless he had an early puberty. Anyway, you should tell your parents about your concerns as they should talk to the girl's family about what is happening.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (15 June 2007):

love-him agony auntwow that is a problem babii tel an adult a parent or someone.. that is realy wrong and if you actualy looked up the rules and legal stuf.. anyone under 12 doing sexual stuf with someone over or under is illegal.. no matter if they are consenting.. tel sum1 babii, mail me if u wana talk x x x

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A female reader, carlyuk United Kingdom +, writes (15 June 2007):

carlyuk agony auntomg my little sisters 10 and id hate her to be with anyone right one a person whos 3 years older get your parnets involved for the best hun

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007):

Get your parents involved as soon as possible! Tell them about what you've seen and what you've found. In the unlikely event that they do nothing then talk to a responsible adult such as a teacher or since this is against the law a police officer. Do not let this continue!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007):

Maybe you should talk to an adult in the house. He is too young to have girlfriends in the first place especially in his room. Where is the adult supervision in the house???

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