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age
36-40,
*k06
writes: Well, its me again. I was the one who received the email about my girlfriend cheating on me. To recap:I received an email that said look in her myspace inbox in september. I found some incriminating evidence, it supported the accusation. I confronted her. She ran off, and ignored me because I invaded her privacy, and she said she didnt cheat.I gave her a week to clear her mind without my attempting to contact her. This makes 3 weeks total. She ignored my call. I ended it.Am I wrong?
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reader, LauraE +, writes (14 June 2007):
No. You invaded her privacy, which was wrong. But if she had been innocent, she would have gone berserk about that far more than about the privacy issue. Then you gave her another chance, which she rejected. If she was unfaithful, maybe the relationship was ending anyway, and this has just killed it stone dead rather than letting it drag on. That's a good thing. You did right to end it, but next time, try to trust until proven othewise, it's the only way.
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reader, rachal +, writes (14 June 2007):
i think that (not to be rude) there was trust missing from the relationship on both ends. my opinion is that a relationship s built on trust, and w/out that as the foundation, it crumbles. i'm sorry that you had to break up w/ her, but you had a good reason for doing so... good luck. hope you find someone who works for you... :]
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