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When he turns me down for sex..I feel so rejected. What is going on with him?

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Question - (14 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Last night after work I got to my boyfriends house around 9:30, I suggested we take a shower and hinted at a little more, but he said It's too late as he has to be at work at 5am. This isnt the first time this has happened, I dont ask for it a lot, it's just that I have a big sex drive and everytime he says the same thing, I feel rejected. We havent had sex in a month, and even though I was on my period and couldnt do anything, I still gave him head, and handjobs, etc. I feel really hurt, and all he can really say is Dont ask him to do that sort of thing at that time, I told him he chose to and hung up, He hasnt gotten back to me since. Please help.

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (17 June 2007):

Frank B Kermit agony auntNow wait a minute. You show up at his place at 9:30 pm, and you know he has to wake up at 3-4 am to get to work for 5am, and THAT is when you want him to have the energy for sex? Oh, Com'on.

Try this...plan a getaway for the two of you, and get him at a time when he has already rested.

It is not your high sex drive...it is your sense of timing.

-Frank B Kermit

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (15 June 2007):

Danielepew agony auntMaybe he's just overworked? Find out. If he really is overworked, then he is not rejecting you.

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